Category: Healing

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If You Are Not Growing, You Are Dying!

We are welcoming a new wonderful month and I’m wondering, are you happy with your achievements, or are you stuck, getting the same old results?

What’s preventing you from expressing your greatness?

Why are you still spinning your wheels?

Is it fear of being rejected, or fear of feeling not good enough? What is your major fear? 

It is not necessary that you identify where your fear is coming from, but it is important that you decide to face and overcome the demons that keep you in a state of frustration and stagnation because what keeps you repeating the same old pattern is the fear of knowing more about your reality — and having to act on what you discover.

Once you become aware of the truth of the matter — you have a few choices to make: keep doing what you have been doing (hiding, hibernating), or do what you’ve never done before to have what you’ve never had before (changing). I know from my experience how scary and painful change can be, but remember those times when you have avoided change out of fear. Once you dared to move from thought to action how much easier the latter ended up being!

Accepting the need to make changes usually means that you’ll be required to take action to change an outcome. Are you satisfied with the outcomes in your life? If not, are you ready to take action and create a new outcome?

I can help YOU move forward and create the type of results you long for. Call me to book your free “Move Forward Now” Session or request it here!

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The # 1 Time and Energy Drainer

 

The #1 Time and Energy Drainer

Are you one of those people who keeps on procrastinating?

Are you condemning yourself to keep longing for the dreams you are not willing to pursue?

Do you keep avoiding self-discipline?

Blame is the high price you pay when you let your life slip through your fingers without making the decision to do what it takes to follow your passion. You’ve probably found yourself in a daily basis wondering what if… What if I had done this? What if I could go back in time and take this simple action step? How much could I change?

Stop blaming yourself for what you haven’t done and decide to take action TODAY. Set priorities in your life. Get clear about your life vision and set goals that bring you closer to accomplishing them. Choose every day, activities that support both, your passion and your priorities.

Be disciplined and you will find yourself in a privileged place, striving to get to the top, to achieve success on your own terms.

Do not wait for the right time to act on your dreams! Today is the perfect day to start writing that book that’s been calling you for a while. Today is the perfect day to start that project you’ve envisioned for the longest time. Today is the perfect day to take the first step to lose weight.

Stop making excuses!

I don’t have time!

I’m too tired!

I’m too old!

I’m not smart enough!

How many days and weeks you go wasting time on tasks that have no value to you or your loved ones. How often do you review your day and find that you’ve invested your time on unimportant things! What is the price you are paying?

Take charge of your life and make every minute of it worth living but do it NOW!

Here are two simple tips to help you stop procrastinating:

  • Get Crystal Clear about the What and Why – As important as it is to know what your passion is and what you want to accomplish, it is also important to be clear about the reasons behind your goal. An easy way to get to this clarity is setting your life priorities straight and then aligning your day-to-day actions so they support those priorities.

  • Plan ahead – Take a few minutes every night to organize your agenda and choose 3 – 5 activities that will take you closer to accomplishing your projects. Highlight the activities that must be done regardless.

Things I Must Do Today To Move Forward

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Following this process will also serve as a progress report. Sometimes we don’t acknowledge the progress we made because we are not keeping track of the action steps we are taking and we just beat up ourselves for what we aren’t doing.

Remember, you must become your #1 fan and cheerleader!

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A Goal Without A Plan Is Just A Wish

Are you disappointed with the results (or lack of,) you’ve had this past year?

Stop there, and just turn your mistakes into learning lessons, and take time this month to get ready and open to welcome new opportunities in the coming year.

Blame is the high price you pay when you let your life slip through your fingers without making the decision to do what it takes to follow your passion. You’ve probably found yourself lately, wondering what if… What if I had done this? What if I could go back in time and take this simple action step? How much could I change?

Stop blaming yourself for what you haven’t done and decide to take action TODAY. Set priorities in your life. Get clear about your life vision and set goals that bring you closer to accomplishing them. Choose every day activities that support both, your passion and your priorities.

Be disciplined and you will find yourself in a privileged place, striving to get to the top,and to achieve success on your own terms.

Do not wait for the right time to act on your dreams. Today is the perfect day to start writing that book that’s been calling you for a while. Today is the perfect day to start that project you’ve envisioned for the longest time. Today is the perfect day to take the first step to lose weight. Stop making excuses!

A Goal Without a Plan is Just a WishI don’t have time!

I’m too tired!

I’m too old!

I’m not smart enough! Sound familiar?

How many days and weeks you go wasting time on tasks that have no value to you or your loved ones. How often do you review your day and find that you’ve invested your time on unimportant things! What is the price you are paying?

Take charge of your life and make every minute of it worth living but do it NOW!

Here are two simple tips to help you achieve your goals:

  •  Get Crystal Clear about the What and Why – As important as it is to know what your passion is and what you want to accomplish, it is also important to be clear about the reasons behind your goal. An easy way to get to this clarity is setting your life priorities straight and then aligning your day-to-day actions so they support those priorities.

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  • Plan ahead – Take a few minutes every night to organize your agenda and choose 3 – 5 activities that will take you closer to accomplishing your projects. Highlight the activities that must be done regardless.

Remember, “A goal without a plan is just a wish.” Stop the cycle of frustration you go through, year after year. Study what worked and what needs to improve. If you want to get results, you must take action, take the risk of getting out of your comfort zone to achieve the results you haven’t achieved before.

“No plan. No objective. No goal. The road to anywhere is the road to nowhere, and the road to nowhere leads to dreams sacrificed, opportunities squandered, and a life unfulfilled.”

                  Thomas S. Monson

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Are You Being True To Yourself?

I’ve been asking myself this question every single day for the last weeks. It is so easy to get caught up pleasing others, and as a consequence, losing sight of your own vision, values and goals.

As I’ve focused on staying true to myself, I noticed that in the past, I allowed the fear of rejection to influence my decisions regarding my career. I felt that I needed to please everyone in order to attract more people to my practice and to succeed.

Little by little, I found myself drifting away  from my true, soul purpose and original vision of my life. Luckily, I’ve been able to correct my course and reconnect to what brings meaning to my life.

And this is the main reason I am writing this message now. As the end of the year approaches, I’ve been reflecting on my ideal life vision for the New Year and as I looked back to my work, I could see how I’ve been pulled to different directions which has made me lose sight of my destination.

I feel I owe you both, my apologies and gratitude. Apologies, for having taken you to a destination different than the one I probably promised to take you to, when we first started working together, and immense gratitude for staying with me while I sailed into unknown waters. Despite of the distractions I dealt with, this has been a year of amazing breakthroughs and achievement,s and I want to acknowledge the fact that I could have not done as much without your support. Again, thank you, thank you, thank you!

Well, that being said, as I get clearer about my vision and goals, I’d like to introduce myself to you again, so you have also a clear understanding of my offerings and what you can expect from my work and message.

I know that you are busy and your time is limited. So, Ill try to be as brief as possible on my efforts to let you know more in depth about who Lilian is, what does she stand for, and how she can help you in your journey.

Also, if my message no longer resonates with you, please feel free to unsuscribe from this newsletter. No hard feelings!

My mission is to help you reconnect and align to your true, soul purpose. This expression is usually associated with a job or career. I’ve come to realize that the ultimate soul purpose of men is, to recreate a relationship with the all-loving God within, and honor our divine nature and unity with the Creator. Once we acknowledge and align to this truth we’ll get a clear vision of our ideal life from a divine perspective where all areas of life are in focus, and all is possible. I call it, Life at Infinity (more about it in the next newsletter.)

I believe that,

  • we were created to experience Love, Joy and Fulfillment
  • there is only Love
  • Love is the beginning and end of all things
  • we are Whole and Perfect at all times, Now and Here
  • we gain a true sense of ourselves as Perfect Beings through the energy of Love
  • we are not only One with God, but, we are also One with God’s creation
  • all we need to thrive is already here
            I can help you…
  •  reclaim your divinity
  • get a clear vision of your life
  • create a plan to align your life to your soul’s purpose
  • overcome the illusion of imperfection and limitation which causes self-sabotage
  • unlock your full potential
  • make money doing what you love
  • make a difference in the world
  • tap into your innate, intuitive abilities and connect with the angelic realm and higher self for personal guidance
  • create your Life at Infinity (your life manifested from a divine perspective)
  • manifest joy, love, abundance and fulfillment in your life
            Newsletter topics
  • Unconditional Love
  • Oneness
  • Purpose
  • Mindset
  • Abundance
  • Inner wisdom
  • Intuitive guidance
  • Communicating with the angelic realm
  • Reiki Classes and Workshops
I’m looking forward to sharing more of my journey with you to empower you and to motivate you to pursue your Life at Infinity. In the meantime, I want to encourage you to ask yourself, Am I being true to myself? Am I clear about my destination? Does my life have meaning?
If you are ready to self-correct your course, please, request a free Soul-discovery Session to start creating your Life at Infinity. But, do it now, I only have a limited number of sessions available!
Love and Light,
Lilian

 

 

 

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Believe in Your Ability to Create Your Own Reality and Abundance!

“Problems cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.”

Albert Einstein

 

This is such a great story! As soon as I read it, this quote by Albert Einstein popped in my mind. Anji’s experience validates this powerful principle and I thought to share it with you.

When I spoke last with Anji, I had a crystal clear insight into exactly what she needed to do to turn her financial situation around. Since then, I’ve received several texts from Anji, sharing her day to day success. The money miracles keep manifesting non-stop for Anji! But read what happened…

I have known Lilian for several years as a holistic practitioner but what always stands out, is her warm, loving, very accepting nature. Her energy is warm and safe. She appears in my life when I have needed some profound healing.

But I must say, the latest conversation I had with her was Life changing.  She is now a life coach and doing her Magnify your Purpose business.  I kept being prompted inside to get more information from her.  So I text her one day and she told we could get together and talk. I met with her at a coffee shoppe.  She said many positive and truthful statements to me. The one that rang in my ears was “Sometimes you have to do something you have never done before, to get something you have never had before. It was such a lightening bolt of clarity in my mind. I left there thinking about it constantly for days, it was as if it had created a new pathway in my brain and clicked the “on button” on. It was the conviction in her voice, her belief that what she was telling me was truth and she was already living it.

I began to realize how limited my thinking had been, especially about my financial situation.  I have been doing the exact same routine with money all my life and guess what?  I have been getting the same results over and over again. I felt a burning inside that I had not felt in years, I immediately updated my vision board, this time it was the most different board I had ever created. Usually, I carefully cut out the pieces and make the board look like an art piece.  Not this time. I ripped the pages out of magazines and newspapers, I rapidly glue them on the board. I was amazed at when it was done how it was extremely different than any board I had ever created. Part of me said oh it looks so messy and thrown together! But I just told myself “sometimes you gotta do something you have never done before, to get something you have never had before.”  It has become my mantra these last three weeks or so.

My life has changed by leaps and bounds. I am seeing manifestation of abundance everywhere I go and everything I touch. Let me tell you just a couple.

I walked out of my job I have had the last two years, last Monday and was fired. I have never had that happened before and since that day the abundance has been rolling in. ( I did something I had never done before to get something I never had before).  My ex husband was going to stop paying child support on my daughter because she turned 18, I got a text that he decided he was going to continue the support, no explanation just that he was going to continue doing it.  I started belly dance class, I went to two classes my teacher sent me a note on facebook saying, “I don’t want you to ever pay for classes this is my gift to you.”

I believe in my ability to create my own reality and abundance!

Lilian’s knowledge of how to magnify your purpose is outstanding. I know she will continue to help others grow and change their own limiting belief systems.  And, I am forever grateful for her taking the time to share what she is doing in her own life with me. When I walked out of my job I had no fear I knew I was leaving and old limiting place and walking into a whole new world. I  thank Lilian for her courage to follow and magnify her own purpose so she can help others magnify their purpose.

I feel like I left so much out, I could write a book just on since the first time you gave me reiki years ago and the treatment at the cocoon and the meeting in the coffee shoppe. I thank you with all my heart and send you all the love that I possess. I am once again ready to do God’s work. thank you for all your help.

Love Light and Laughter,

Anji Udy

 

Please, share your own story below. Tell us what you could do differently today that could bear a positive outcome in your life.

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Living Intensely, Fearlessly and Empowered!

I am in love with my life!

Live Intensely, Fearlessly and Empowered

I can’t imagine a different way of life. I wake up every day in exhilaration to embrace a new day.

But, I’ll be honest … this hasn’t been always my story…

There was a time, not too long ago, when I had to reach to all kind of tricks to drag myself out of bed and face the dreading reality, I was stuck at a job that no longer fulfilled me and I couldn’t see the way out.

I knew there was a lot more to life than what I was experiencing.

I knew I had a mission to fulfill and special gifts to share, but I was frozen with fear. Yes, it was just plain fear, fear of the unknown, fear of rejection, fear of criticism; fear of failure and fear of making a fool of myself, and even fear of success.

Despite of my sincere desire to make a difference in the world, I didn’t have the courage to make a difference in my own world, and I just kept playing it safe in my comfort zone, blaming my circumstances and the entire world; taking a few steps forward and going right back to the same place I longed to leave for once and for all.

The Turning Point

Ironically, it took another dreadful situation, that struck me inadvertently (the possibility of having cancer), to realize that life may be either, too short or too long, to live in fear.

I realized that there is only one day to live, one day to love and to succeed, and that day is TODAY. I realized that I couldn’t wait any longer for the right opportunity to pursue my dreams. I must create the opportunities.

I can’t wait for another person to rescue me.  I must rescue myself to reconnect with the true, powerful person that I am by divine nature and birthright.

I can’t keep playing by anybody else’s rules or I won’t ever be able to play my own game.

This was an incredible shift and despite the circumstances, I felt empowered and compelled from then on, to live every minute of my life to its fullest, and to make what would be the most important decisions in my life.

I decided that no matter what happened, I would strive to keep alive the creative fire that had been re-ignited in my soul.

I would no longer run my life out of fear or settle for the ordinary because I deserve the extraordinary.

The fulfillment of my purpose was no longer dependent on my circumstances or the people that surrounded me because I was now willing to take100% responsibility for my actions, thoughts and decisions.

Most importantly, that I would invest all my time, energy and resources to pursue my dreams because I AM WORTH IT.

Wow, I was certainly, ecstatic, relieved, liberated and finally ready to live L.I.F.E (Living Intensely, Fearlessly and Empowered.)

Walking in My Own shoes or, My Purpose…

It is my belief that before we come to this existence, we choose the journey we want to experience that will free us from the limiting beliefs that we will be subjected to, once we are born and, that would most likely, prevent us from embracing our soul purpose.

So, after experiencing the joy that living a purpose bring to your life I couldn’t help but to take on the mission to help you re-discover, re-align and magnify your purpose to create a profit filled, passion-driven business that will allow you to make a difference in your life and in the world by embracing your true brilliance, boldness and beauty.

So, my question to you now is, are you ready to live intensely, fearlessly and empowered (or ready for l.i.f.e)?

I hope you are because this is the PERFECT time to live the story of your worthiness and magnificence. We only have this life, this time and space to live and, I’m determined to live it BIG and I invite YOU, wherever you are and whatever your circumstances are, to do the same.

You have the power to change your life, to overcome your circumstances, to re-create your reality and start loving life and living fearlessly but you must make a decision and take action NOW.

ALLOW yourself to dream, live, laugh, forgive, love and thrive but do it NOW and do it BIG, because this may be the only moment you and I have to do so.

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Are You Spinning Your Wheels? 7 Ways to Tell You’re Staying Stagnant

So here you are, again. You’re faced with a problem or issue and you’ve been at it for a while now… You always think you’re solving it, always working hard, but never getting anywhere. Does this sound familiar? If so, you may be spinning your wheels.

Here are some other signs that you need to stop to reevaluate some things before you continue:

  1. You keep switching plans or switching goals

    You have a new goal each week that you’re working towards… and with each new goal comes a new plan of action.

  2. You are feeling pretty lost

    You lack direction either because you have not determined the direction you want to take or you’re choosing not to take it.

  3. Excessive internet searching

    Google is your best friend. Or perhaps a social media site. Either way, you keep looking for answers from the World Wide Web instead of getting more introspective and meditative about your situation.

  4. You’ve stopped talking to people about your project

    You’ve told so many people so many different goals/plans that you’ve had over this time that you’ve finally stopped talking about it so that you don’t let anyone down.

  5. You justify everything

    Well, this time you’re taking this road because of this reason…. and then you stopped to take another road for this other reason… and then you decided that the first road you were on was probably best, as it turns out, so your get back on there… but then you decide to do it a bit differently because it just makes sense, right??

  6. You’re being guided by one of the “7 Deadly Sins!”

    Perhaps you’re being guided by  wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, envy, or gluttony?

  7. Relentless action

    When was the last time you stopped to smell the roses? Has it been a while since you’ve taken some time away from work during your “working hours”?

    Albert Einstein has been quoted saying “the significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.” Take a look at your situation. Perhaps you’re spinning your wheels because you’re using the same tool that dug you into your problem (same thinking) that you are using to dig yourself out?

    What are some other ways you’ve found that you might be spinning?

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Visualization or The Art or Mental Rehearsal

“Your imagination is your preview of life’s coming attractions.”
~ Albert Einstein

We know for a fact that our nervous system doesn’t distinguish between a real experience and one imagined and that wee feel and act according to what we believe to be true about ourselves.

When we do mental rehearsal, the Success Activating Mechanism, also called Reticular Activating System takes over automatically and does the job. It finds the information, the answers to your questions, the solutions to the problems and obstacles that present during your course of action, and the best way to get to your destination. You may find out that the results are better than what you obtain when you use only your conscious mind and thoughts to achieve your goals. It doesn’t mean that you won’t have to take any action to finish your mission but that you won’t need to go through the mental struggle of consciously matching up your desires with the mental image of yourself.

So, once you have established the goals you want to reach and have prioritized them, choose one or two to start with the process of visualization, also called creative imagination.

Tips

  • Choose a quiet and relaxing space
  • Give yourself at least 30 minutes to perform your rehearsal
  • Make sure you won’t be disturbed
  • Read the entire process carefully before starting to implement it

The Process

Sit comfortably.

For a few minutes, focus your attention in your breathing, inhaling and exhaling deeply. Feel the warm air filling up your lungs and reaching every organ, every muscle to take you to a state of total relaxation.

The key to this exercise is to create an image that is as vivid and as detailed as possible. Pay attention to the smallest details, the temperature of the room, the type of clothes you are wearing and the feel of them on your skin, the people you interact with and their appearance, every sound in the surroundings.

Hold a perfect image of yourself being, feeling and behaving like the successful person you want to become. Give up any judgmental thoughts. It doesn’t matter who you where and what you did in the past. Believe this is who you are today, not who you are going to be in the future.

How do you dress as this new you?

Where do you go?

Where do you live?

Who are your acquaintances?

How much money do you make?

How happy and fulfilled you are?

What do you do with your family? What do you do for fun? This is the perfect moment and place to expand your horizons and get to the top.

Avoid trying to figure out how you are going to get there. Just have the certainty that you are already that person with all the attributes necessary to achieve all you desire. Know that even if you fall asleep during the process, this information is still reaching your subconscious mind and that as you awaken or finish this process you will remember with clarity the image of your true and successful self. Write in your journal the insights and detailed information you visualized and establish a plan of action that will take you closer to your goal.

Tips to Write a Powerful Rehearsal Script

If you have difficulty visualizing your mental movie, write and record a detailed script to play during the mental rehearsal. So, in this movie you will be both, the narrator and the star, which has the added benefit of activating the auditory sense for a more powerful session.

  • Narrate the story in the present tense. For example, “I am a well known published author and public speaker” instead of, “I want to be a well-known published author and public speaker.”
  • Be specific. “I make $ 300.000 a year” instead of, “I want to make more money.”
  • Do not limit the story to a mere description. Infuse it with feelings and emotions. Think of the following questions, how do you feel? How do you act? How do you project yourself? How do you influence people? What are the strongest emotions (joy, happiness, love, pride, awe, inner peace, abundant, confidence, empowerment)?

Please, add this exercise to your daily routine to speed up your success achieving process and post your comments and/or questions down here or on my facebook page. I’ll respond to you in a quickly manner.

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Living In Spirit

What a wonderful time I had meditating on the messages I received earlier.

I feel joyful and peaceful. I know that I have the support of God and his angels. I love how I connect deeper through writing to God and my higher self to know the truth of all things. I love feeling, living in spirit (inspired).

I love knowing that I am aligned to my life purpose and that every day I can come closer to live one hundred percent the life I’m meant to live, where I can be true to myself.

 

The Message

“You’ve grasped the truth in your heart. It’s not the only truth that you will be learning, but the one that serves you at this moment.

As long as you are willing to take time to meditate, you will get in touch to a higher consciousness that will guide you every step in life, and you will see your purpose coming clearer to you. You will know how to handle the challenges you may encounter. They are necessary to refine your spirit.”

 

 

 

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Let Go and Let God

Winners see risks as opportunities to grow.

Don’t make of fear a reason to quit. Let your deepest desires push forward and go on despite your fears. Overcome your fears and go on!

If you wait for the perfect moment when all is in order, balanced and under control, you may never start. Success is totally dependent upon drive, focus and persistence.

Forget about the consequences of failure. Failure is only a temporary change in direction to set you straight for your next success.

“Make no little plans. They have no magic to stir men’s blood and probably themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work, remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will never die, but long after we are gone will be a living thing, asserting itself with ever-growing insistency. Remember that our sons and grandsons are going to do things that would stagger us. Let your watchword be order and your beacon beauty. Think big.”

Daniel Burnham, Chicago architect. (1846-1912)

 

Imagine your Dreams. Take Action. Let Go and Let God!